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Poetry Texas
March 20
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Members offered reassuring perspectives on adjusting to life after mastectomy, with many sharing that initial worries about appearance faded... Read more

Members offered reassuring perspectives on adjusting to life after mastectomy, with many sharing that initial worries about appearance faded once they found comfortable solutions that worked for their bodies. Several members described practical strategies including wearing loose or flowy clothing during recovery, using bralettes with removable inserts, getting professional bra fittings at stores like Nordstrom, or choosing crocheted prosthetics from organizations like Knitted Knockers for lightweight comfort. A recurring theme was resilience and self-acceptance, with many members emphasizing that being cancer-free mattered far more than how clothes fit, and encouraging others not to worry about strangers' opinions or let concerns about appearance overshadow their strength.

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Congratulations. God blessed you for being cancer free.
Keep on living!

March 22
A MyBCTeam Member

After my single mastectomy, I went to Nordstroms, where I picked out a bra I liked, and they altered it so the prostheses would fit in. I don’t know if they still do it, but it was a good experience and was covered by insurance. Thereafter, I altered my own. I am small breasted anyway, so after retirement, I quit wearing a bra at all and choose clothes with a print that are blousy. I figure if anyone is looking at my chest, their reaction is not my problem.

March 22
A MyBCTeam Member

I’m almost 3 years out from TNBC and Double Mastectomy. I don’t care about being flat, it hurts to wear a bra. I have nothing but skin over my ribs. My sternum hurts when the weather changes or I over do it. There is one consultation I’m Cancer free and alive. Praise the Lord.

March 21
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Sherrie, thank you that helps. I’m also large breasted but going to a B when the plastic surgeon gives the go ahead. I’m hoping the Rituxan won’t make that much of a difference but I’m pretty sure it will be delayed. I went flying in the ice and had some kid marks on my shin that happened in Jan they were completely no big deal but they still don’t look healed.

March 20
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I was a DD size. I had a double mastectomy with tissue expanders placed at the same time. But the expanders were not filled for about 6 weeks after surgery, so I was completely flat for a while. When I first came home from surgery I was wearing a surgical bra with bandages/padding over the incisions. I wore loose fitting shirts layered with another unbuttoned that hung open. That helped conceal the "flatness" after having been a DD. I also wore loose flowy wraps for work. Many people I worked with did not know that I had a double mastectomy. Once I had my surgeon follow-up and he said that I could remove the surgical bra and bandages, I bought a cheap bralette that had inserts that could be removed. The padded inserts gave me a little "rise". Then I started getting fills to the tissue expanders and the "rise" got a little higher. I am now a small "C". The right clothing selections can really help conceal your flatness if that is a concern. And I experimented with different clothes before I had the surgery so that I would not be stressed.

March 20

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