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December 1, 2025
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A MyBCTeam Member

I’m so sorry, Angel. This is really disgusting. It’s actually called “flat denial” in our bc circles. I’ve heard of this over and over. It’s all about the money. The only thing you can do is go interview more surgeons. That’s what I did and only the third one accepted to do what I wanted. Don’t give up. You have all the right to get this fixed. Advocate for yourself and just talk to more surgeon. Wishing you that you find one soon!

December 1, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

amen to everything that everybody has shared with you… I’ve had a terrible time with my reconstruction, I’ve done most self Referral only because I’ve had the insurance to do so, Plastic surgeons/cancer surgeon finally has straightened me out pretty well… My journey has been difficult for many reasons, a reoccurrence, radiation, bad tissue, expander experience… I’m sure many here on this forum. I’ve had much of the same experiences, reconstruction is not an easy road, and the people I know personally have not found it to be a easy road either… Stay after it don’t take no for an answer, if you lived in my area, I would definitely give you some names! Hang in there no part of this cancer journey even reconstruction is easy. Blessings to you.

December 7, 2025
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How can you get a referral to a plastic surgeon for breast reconstruction when your doctors aren't listening?

It's frustrating when you feel your concerns aren't being heard. Consider these steps:

Seek a second opinion: A MyBCTeam member shared that after their first breast oncologist dismissed their concerns, a different Show Full Answer

How can you get a referral to a plastic surgeon for breast reconstruction when your doctors aren't listening?

It's frustrating when you feel your concerns aren't being heard. Consider these steps:

Seek a second opinion: A MyBCTeam member shared that after their first breast oncologist dismissed their concerns, a different oncologist was much more supportive and connected them with a highly regarded reconstructive surgeon. Don't hesitate to find another breast oncologist who takes your reconstruction wishes seriously.

Be direct about your rights: In the U.S., insurance companies that cover mastectomies are required to cover breast reconstruction surgery. You have a legal right to this option, so clearly state that you want a referral to discuss reconstruction.

Talk to your breast surgeon: Your breast surgeon can often refer you directly to a plastic surgeon, especially if you're considering immediate reconstruction during your mastectomy.

Contact a plastic surgeon directly: Some practices allow self-referrals or can help you navigate getting the proper referral from your insurance company.

Remember, the decision to have reconstruction is entirely yours. You deserve a medical team that respects your choices and helps you explore all options available.

December 1, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

Not the surgeon's body! Contact your insurance company to find out which plastic surgeons are in your network. Then do your research! Ask your PCP- mine was the one who recommended my surgeon. Good luck!

December 1, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

The plastic surgeon I did see refused to do anything unless I wanted breast

December 1, 2025

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