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October 17, 2025
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A MyBCTeam Member

Your first appt w/oncologist take someone supportive w/you. It’s a 2nd set of ears. You may hear what the doctor says one way. . The supportive person may hear them in another way.

October 17, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

And then if your radiologist and oncologist say something you don't understand ask them to explain it better. When your appointments are done you should have a sense that you understand what's going to happen.🥰

October 18, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

Ask about side effects both short and long term. Ask about risk of recurrence with and without additional treatment. Ask for time to consider all options before agreeing to treatment plan.

October 18, 2025
A MyBCTeam Member

Good luck! As you think of questions just write them down, and take your list with you! I tend to overthink things- so I would write a question down and tell myself- not going to think anymore about that! Of course, something else would start creeping in! Getting together with the surgeon, who went over the pathology reports etc. and determining the "battle plan" really helped lower my anxiety. I hope the same is true for you! Hugs!

October 17, 2025
MyBCTeam

It's helpful to prepare a prioritized list of questions before your appointments to ensure you get all the information you need. Here are key questions to consider asking your oncologists:

• What type and stage of breast cancer do I have
• Has the cancer spread to other parts of my body?
• What is my prognosis?
• What Show Full Answer

It's helpful to prepare a prioritized list of questions before your appointments to ensure you get all the information you need. Here are key questions to consider asking your oncologists:

• What type and stage of breast cancer do I have?
• Has the cancer spread to other parts of my body?
• What is my prognosis?
• What treatment options are available and what are their benefits and risks?
• What side effects should I expect from each treatment?
• Should I consider participating in any clinical trials?
• What are the next steps in my treatment plan? Consider bringing someone with you to take notes or ask permission to record the conversation on your phone. If anything isn't clear during the appointment, don't hesitate to ask for further explanation. Many patients find it helpful to write down the answers next to their questions for later reference.

Remember that these conversations with your doctors are ongoing - you can always follow up with additional questions at future appointments or through other approved communication channels.

October 17, 2025

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