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New York, NY

Today I made a decision to take endocrine therapy and radiation the whole breast for triple positive invasive breast cancer because I have some chronic health problems, but soon as I felt comfortable with the decision I started to doubt it . I reached out to my doctor to confirm if endocrine therapy would be used, how or if the HER2 would be treated. I just want to do the right thing for me and my situation. Has anyone ever had to deal with a similar situation with a decision for a therapy?

October 30
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A MyBCTeam Member

I think a lot of us second guess along the way- is this the right treatment, am I going too aggressive, or not aggressive enough? It's just that this cancer is just so sneaky, and we all know that recurrence is a possibility. It's good that you have confidence in your doctor, that is huge. Eventually, we just have to review all the pros and cons, and make the best decision we can. And then accept- that whatever that decision was, it was the best decision based on all the information we have at this time. If you are a person of faith, lean into that. Keeping you in prayers! Hugs!

October 30
A MyBCTeam Member
5 days ago
A MyBCTeam Member

Thanks Virginia, I didn't look at it that way because I am an over thinker at times. I just got to be confident any decision I make is going to work out for me. And trust God

5 days ago
MyBCTeam

Making treatment decisions for triple positive breast cancer is genuinely hard, and second-guessing yourself afterward is incredibly common — you are absolutely not alone in this.

A MyBCTeam member shared something that really resonates here: "I am in worse emotional despair than when I was diagnosed... Now I am clear, no Show Full Answer

Making treatment decisions for triple positive breast cancer is genuinely hard, and second-guessing yourself afterward is incredibly common — you are absolutely not alone in this.

A MyBCTeam member shared something that really resonates here: "I am in worse emotional despair than when I was diagnosed... Now I am clear, no evidence of carcinoma, and I can't decide what to do." Another MyBCTeam member described feeling anxious about starting a new hormone therapy after difficult side effects with previous medications.

Treatment decisions carry a heavy emotional weight, and that doubt after deciding is a very human response — not a sign you made the wrong choice. Reaching out to your doctor to clarify how endocrine therapy and HER2 treatment fit into your plan was exactly the right move. The best treatment plan is always shaped by your individual situation, including your overall health, cancer type, and personal goals.

Some helpful things to ask your care team:

- What is the goal of each treatment being recommended?
- How will the HER2 component specifically be addressed?
- What are the benefits and risks given your health history?
- Are there alternative options worth considering?

Being open about your concerns, especially around your other health challenges, helps your team find the safest balance for you. If doubt continues to linger, asking about a second opinion is completely reasonable and doesn't mean you distrust your doctor. Research has shown that second opinions sometimes open up new treatment options or simply provide reassurance that you're on the right path — both outcomes are valuable.

Trust yourself for taking this seriously and advocating for your own care. That matters enormously.

October 30

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