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August 25
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A MyBCTeam Member

I was not menopausal when I was diagnosed in 2017 and had double mastectomy at age 50. In 2019 I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer and was thrust into instant menopause when they removed my ovaries along with uterus and fallopian tubes. I had zero signs of menopause other than no period. Went on that way for years until I was put on AIs last year and then boom, the hot flashes started.

August 25
A MyBCTeam Member

Yea this is the main issue with the hormone inhibitor meds for estrogen positive BC!!! It puts anyone not already in menopause into menopause. When the person is young that is a huge shock to the body bc they still have a good amount of estrogen that is then inhibited. I have read that some younger people with estrogen positive BC have to get a full hysterectomy to stop the main estrogen-making organs (like ovaries) from producing anymore plus start a inhibitor medication for the remaining estrogen-making areas (lke fat). I read these super difficult situations and feel such empathy for them. Try to remember what others are facing bc it seems like it can always be or get worse. It’s not an easy road. Ugh!

August 25
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Dealing with menopause and breast cancer together is genuinely tough — and you're far from alone in navigating both at the same time. Breast cancer treatments like chemotherapy, hormone therapies (such as tamoxifen or aromatase inhibitors), and surgery can trigger early or sudden menopause, which brings its own set of Show Full Answer

Dealing with menopause and breast cancer together is genuinely tough — and you're far from alone in navigating both at the same time. Breast cancer treatments like chemotherapy, hormone therapies (such as tamoxifen or aromatase inhibitors), and surgery can trigger early or sudden menopause, which brings its own set of challenges on top of everything else.

Common physical symptoms that can come with treatment-induced menopause include:

- Vaginal dryness and pain during sex
- Hot flashes
- Loss of sex drive (libido)
- Difficulty with natural lubrication
- Joint pain
- Weight gain

One MyBCTeam member shared: "Menopause is a big problem together with all the surgeries and treatments, leading to feelings of being de-womanized." The emotional impact is just as real as the physical side. It's very common to feel a shift in body image, self-esteem, and even your sense of identity. Depression and anxiety are also common, and they can further reduce sexual desire and overall well-being.

Some emotional experiences shared by MyBCTeam members include:

- Feeling like a different person than before diagnosis
- Struggling with body image due to scars or weight changes
- Feeling "broken" or disconnected from intimacy
- Worrying about how a partner perceives them

The good news is there are ways to manage these challenges. Talking openly with your oncologist or a healthcare provider about both physical and emotional symptoms is a great first step — even if it feels awkward. Treatments like therapy, medication adjustments, or vaginal moisturizers may help. You don't have to just push through it silently.

August 25

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