What you're describing is very real and completely understandable. Having been through breast cancer yourself, walking into a cancer center can trigger a flood of memories, emotions, and physical responses β even when you're there for someone else. This is sometimes called "scanxiety" or cancer-related anxiety, and it can Show Full Answer
What you're describing is very real and completely understandable. Having been through breast cancer yourself, walking into a cancer center can trigger a flood of memories, emotions, and physical responses β even when you're there for someone else. This is sometimes called "scanxiety" or cancer-related anxiety, and it can absolutely extend beyond just your own scans or appointments.
Your body remembers what those places meant for you, and it reacts accordingly. That's not weakness β that's just being human. Some things that may help in the moment include:
- Breathing exercises β breathe in for 5 counts, hold for 5, out for 5
- Grounding yourself in the present moment, reminding yourself you are there as a helper, not a patient
- Stepping outside or staying in your vehicle while waiting, if possible
- Mindful meditation or a calming app while you wait
It may also be worth speaking with a therapist who specializes in cancer-related anxiety. Your oncology team can provide referrals, and having that support could make a real difference β both for your work and your own well-being. You're doing a kind thing for others, so make sure you're also taking care of yourself. π
August 13
Oh wow!! Thank you for your continued support ππ
August 14
Medical PTSD is very common for cancer patients. I've had medical PTSD since childhood, but it's way worse now with cancer. My primary care doctor said he would be concerned if I didn't have PTSD from having cancer 6 tines now.
August 14 (edited)