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caught between opinions of my breast Dr./Surgeon and staff of oncology/radiation Dr. How do I know who to trust for my care?

A MyBCTeam Member asked a question 💭
Palm Bay, FL

I have newly discovered invasive ductal carcinoma. Stage 1, grade 2, no lymph nodes involved. My Breast Dr. & Surgeon told me that if I chose radiation, I can spread out the treatments to 1x per week, instead of 5 days straight. That i have the choice in all my care. However, searching for an Oncology Radiation Dr. for continued treatment afterward, (calling several) the office staff says that is not true - I have to have radiation every day. Very frustrated, that I am being forced for… read more

April 13
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A MyBCTeam Member

You can always get a second opinion. You also have the right to decline care. That said,
Always a good idea to ask the risk of recurrence with and without treatment.
My radiation was Monday through Friday for 4 weeks.

April 13
A MyBCTeam Member

Thank you. yes, this is what I had researched & found & made the decision as to what I want & how I am treated. I fit all the criteria for weekly treatments instead of daily. My frustration is finding a Radiologist/Oncologist that will work with me. I want the best treatment for my situation & since it is my body, I feel it should be my choice.

April 13
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How do you navigate conflicting treatment recommendations for your invasive ductal carcinoma?

It's understandably frustrating to receive different information about your radiation treatment options. The disconnect you're experiencing between your surgeon and radiation oncology offices is concerning, and you absolutely Show Full Answer

How do you navigate conflicting treatment recommendations for your invasive ductal carcinoma?

It's understandably frustrating to receive different information about your radiation treatment options. The disconnect you're experiencing between your surgeon and radiation oncology offices is concerning, and you absolutely deserve clear, consistent answers.

Here's what might help:

First, request to speak directly with the radiation oncologist, not just office staff. Staff may be explaining standard protocols, but your specific case might allow for different scheduling options. The actual doctor needs to evaluate your situation and explain what's medically appropriate for your stage 1, grade 2 IDC.

Second, consider getting a second opinion from another radiation oncologist. This can clarify whether alternative radiation schedules are truly available for your diagnosis. Different doctors may have different approaches, and hearing multiple perspectives helps you make informed decisions.

You should also ask both doctors to explain the medical reasoning behind their recommendations. Why does your surgeon believe weekly treatments are appropriate? Why do radiation oncologists typically recommend daily treatments? Understanding the "why" helps you evaluate which approach makes sense for your cancer.

Remember, you do have a say in your care. Shared decision-making means your treatment team should explain options, risks, and benefits so you can choose what aligns with your goals and values. If you feel pushed into treatment without understanding your choices, keep advocating until you get clear answers.

Don't hesitate to be "pushy" about getting the information you need to make confident decisions about your treatment.

April 13
A MyBCTeam Member

Good luck!!

April 13
A MyBCTeam Member

@A MyBCTeam Member

Since your breast surgeon is endorsing the once a week radiation treatment for you, contact his office and ask if he knows any radiation oncologists who will
do this treatment.

Oncology Drs. and breast surgeon’s know each other in the community.

I am hoping that he can help.

You definitely should do what procedures that you want.

Sending strength and prayers.

Sue10

💜💜💜💜💜

April 13

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