Has anyone named their non-boob(s) after surgery as a way of processing and helping with body image?
I named the left one (cancer side) Shirley for “surely you know it’s not real.” I named the right one Zero, like the ghost-dog from The Nightmare Before Christmas—zero existence and along for the ride.
Stupid, I know, but it’s actually helping.
The night before I had my double mastectomy do to Stage 2 Breast Cancer, my family & I had a going away party for them. We ate a great dinner,had a cake that said good bye old friends and played card games and just had an amazing night laughing and sharing the love ❤️
Yes- so far Jack has stayed away- 6 years out of treatment! Hugs!
That is so funny! I hope you are well Virginia. Hugs, Lee
I haven't named the boob- just refer to it as the Foob- for fake boob. I did name the tumor, though. Jack! From the song- that goes, Hit the road Jack, and don't you come back, no more, no more... lol!
Shirley and Zero — honestly, that's not stupid at all. That's creative, funny, and deeply human. If naming them helps you process what you've been through, then it's working exactly as it should.
While naming isn't something widely documented, finding personal, meaningful ways to reconnect with your body after mastectomy Show Full Answer