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I had a double mastectomy February 12th 2024 with breast expanders. 6 months later I had permanent ones put in
Then I waited for 2 months and had medical tattoos nipples and aerola. Live it feel like me.
I had a double mastectomy at age 60. I had reconstruction at the same time. The breast surgeon finished up the double mastectomy and the plastic surgeon stepped in. Tissue expanders were placed and then 6 months later they were exchanged with implants. The expanders were uncomfortable but tolerable. I had no issues with infection or revision. The exchange surgery was very simple. I had it done on a Friday and went back to work the following Thursday.
I opted for reconstruction because I was a DD before surgery so was used to a large chest. I was a middle school teacher and I just felt like a DD going to flat was going to be very noticeable and prompt questions that I just did not want to deal with. Also, I did not feel that I could handle that big of a change my self. Vanity? Maybe, but I knew I would be happier looking more like my old self at least in clothes. I went with a small "C" cup final size.
It has been 4 years and I am satisfied with the results. I would make the same decision. I chose implants over the flap choices that are out there because I felt it was the simplest reconstruction. Best of luck to you as you consider reconstruction. It's a lot to think about.
It's completely understandable to still be weighing this decision — there's no rush, and it's a very personal choice. Many people take months or even years before deciding. Here's a breakdown to help think it through:
Reasons some people choose reconstruction
- Can boost self-esteem and confidence
- May feel more "like Show Full Answer
I agree, only you know what works best for you. Gather all your information, and then find a quiet place to listen to your own thoughts and feelings. If ever there is a time for "You Do You", this is it. I know me, I am not a patient patient, so I knew as reconstruction would be another few surgeries, and recovery times- so, no thank you. It has been 7 years since surgery, and I have no regrets (except for wishing women did not have to still make these decisions). I just pop the prosthetic in the bra, and roll on with my life! Keeping you in prayers as you navigate through all the info and emotions to make the decisions that are right for you! Hugs!
I had double in January 2025 with expanders, then expanders removed in May 2025, all went well. To be honest going flat never entered my mind. It is truly a personal decision. Hugs and prayers!!