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April 14, 2024
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Thank you for all your help. I am scheduled to see a plastic surgeon on the 18th. Hopefully after seeing her I can decide. I am thinking about visiting with a friend of my stylist. She could not have reconstruction and was going to do it later. She said she no longer wants reconstruction. She likes not having to wear a bra.

April 15, 2024
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Deciding between going flat or opting for breast reconstruction after a mastectomy is a deeply personal choice. Here are some points to consider that might help you in making your decision:

1. **Self-Esteem and Body Image**: Some individuals find that reconstruction boosts their confidence and helps them feel more like Show Full Answer

Deciding between going flat or opting for breast reconstruction after a mastectomy is a deeply personal choice. Here are some points to consider that might help you in making your decision:

1. **Self-Esteem and Body Image**: Some individuals find that reconstruction boosts their confidence and helps them feel more like themselves after surgery. Others find empowerment in going flat and embracing their new body shape.

2. **Surgical Considerations**: Reconstruction, whether it involves implants or tissue flap procedures, typically requires more surgery than going flat. This can include additional recovery time and potential risks.

3. **Lifestyle and Recovery**: Think about your lifestyle and how each option might impact it. Reconstruction might involve a longer recovery period, which could temporarily affect your daily activities.

4. **Future Treatments**: Your choice might be influenced by any adjuvant treatments you may need. Radiation, for example, can affect the timing of reconstruction and its outcomes.

5. **Aesthetic Preferences**: Consider the look and feel you are most comfortable with. Prosthetics can offer flexibility with appearance when going flat, while reconstruction aims for a more permanent solution.

6. **Insurance Coverage**: Check what your insurance covers. This can influence the financial aspect of your decision.

Remember, there's no right or wrong choice here. It's about what makes you feel most comfortable and whole. It might be helpful to talk with others who have faced the same decision, as well as consulting with your healthcare team to understand all your options.

April 14, 2024
A MyBCTeam Member

Flat and I am glad.

May 3, 2024
A MyBCTeam Member

I am in my 3rd week recovering from reconstruction, 7 months after mastectomy. The recovery from this surgery has been much easier than the mastectomy, probably because of no drains. I think once I am healed I’m going to be pretty happy with the results. Once you have done your research, I wish you peace with your decision. 💕

April 15, 2024
A MyBCTeam Member

Do your research. Everyone is different. I would recommend talking to some women who have gone flat & women who have done reconstruction….that may help you decide. Also maybe check out some prosthetic options to see if that is an option that might work for you. Delayed reconstruction is also an option in some cases. May God bless you as you make this difficult decision.

April 15, 2024

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