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July 17
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A MyBCTeam Member

I cannot imagine how hard this wait is! Although cancer can be aggressive, it did’t happen over night, this has been brewing. A week or two should not a difference.
Your team needs to know as much as possible before starting chemo. So hoping it has not gotten out of the lymph node, but if it has, it could change treatment. They want to be sure you are getting the best treatment for your disease. Once you have the first treatment, hopefully any cancerous tumor or cell will be change, and being killed off.
Sending hugs, prayers and positive thoughts your way that the scans are great, you start treatment and start fighting this beast!

July 17
MyBCTeam

That urgency makes complete sense — when cancer is involved, waiting can feel unbearable. The frustration is completely valid.

The good news is that your care team likely has a reason for the timing. Scans before chemotherapy can actually help in important ways:

- They give doctors a "baseline" picture of what's happening Show Full Answer

That urgency makes complete sense — when cancer is involved, waiting can feel unbearable. The frustration is completely valid.

The good news is that your care team likely has a reason for the timing. Scans before chemotherapy can actually help in important ways:

- They give doctors a "baseline" picture of what's happening in your body
- They help confirm whether cancer has spread beyond the lymph node
- They allow your oncologist to choose the most effective chemo plan for your specific situation With cancer found in a lymph node, chemotherapy may be given before or after surgery depending on your situation. Starting with the right information means your treatment can be more targeted and effective.

The most important thing to do right now is ask your oncologist directly: "What is the reason for waiting, and is there any risk to my outcome during this time?" You deserve a clear answer, and a good doctor will give you one.

You can also ask about getting a second opinion if you're still feeling uncertain — that's always a reasonable step.

July 17
A MyBCTeam Member

Hi Lisa, it is frustrating- we know that there is something to fight- but here we sit- just waiting!! I had to remind myself that every test, every scan, was all like the recon before a battle- the more we know, the more effectively and efficiently we can fight this! It will all come together soon, and then a spurt of possibly more appts- (I had to have additional scans of lungs, and heart tests as a baseline for one of my chemo cocktail drugs), but then it all settles down into a weird routine. Hang in there! Rest, hydrate, etc. so you will be in your best place physically to take this on! Hugs!

July 17

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